SHE Leads OKC:  SHE Leads, SHE Leaps!

These 10 speakers will help us take the LEAP to lead our best life. 

***We will be adding more amazing speaker bios and talks in the coming days.***

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Patty Toms, Social Media Maven & Style Coach 

Talk: Defining & Refining your Digital Style


Patty is a leading learner in the world of social media. She’s been an active user and advocate of all things digital since 2004 when MySpace officially went live. As a Social Media Strategist and Manager she curates & creates a strategy for each social platform while cutting through the noise in order for a person’s voice and brand to shine through. Patty will be walking you through how to define and refine your digital style whether it’s personal or business. 

As the Vice President of the San Antonio TogetHER Digital Chapter, Digital Performance Coach for the Digital Creative Institute of San Antonio, and the Social Media Maven of RadVine Marketing in Edmond, OK, her passion and healthy mindset for social media is contagious.

When she’s not creating content, implementing strategy, or digital coaching, you can find her buzzing around town and traveling with her high school sweetheart. Patty is a high functioning extrovert with introvert tendencies and is a true enneagram 2. She’s a mother of three, charcuterie fein, obsessed dog mom, and as a slight shoe addiction.

LinkedIn: Patty Toms

Malena Lott Putnam, Author & Brand Strategist

Talk: Focus POCUS: Making Magic in the Present Moment

An award-winning storyteller and brand strategist, Malena helps people and brands develop their authentic story and platforms to connect with their audience. To date she’s developed more than two hundred brands and products. 

She’s written twelve novels and novellas, and is currently working on two non-fiction books and is a regular speaker on the topic of Personal Brand Power for all ages. She’s the executive director and owner of Chicks in Charge, a networking group for women leaders in Oklahoma and is active in both the collegiate and alumni chapters of Alpha Chi Omega. The former OKC Biz 40 Under 40 recipient is over 40 and loving it! She’s also a die-hard college football fan (OU & OSU), and happy bookworm.  Malena’s greatest loves are travel, hiking, Pilates, her silver fox, and her three kids, who can’t really be called kids anymore.

IG: @malenaputnam

FB: /malenaputnam



Hilarie Blaney, Sr. VP, BancFirst 

Talk: Business Etiquette Tips All Women Should Know 

Hilarie is a Senior Vice President with BancFirst and has been banking for 41 years specializing in educating women about their finances. Hilarie is a certified etiquette and Protocol expert. 

Her expertise includes advising medical students, seasoned physicians, small businesses and large corporations in all facets of money management.

In addition to her banking expertise, she is an award-winning civic volunteer receiving the Paragon Award from Leadership OKC, Sustainer of the Year from Junior League of OKC, and Pi Beta Phi Crest Award. Hilarie is a founding member of Impact Oklahoma, Inc.

E-mail: Hilarie.Blaney@BancFirst.Bank




Tess Mack, Personal Trainer, Fitness Addict Tulsa 

Talk: Changing Our Relationship to Food & Fitness 

Tess’ self-proclaimed “Fitness Addict”, can be found all over Tulsa doing what she does best… Motivating!
After an unsettling diagnosis in 2017, Tess decided it was time for her to take her life into her own hands. In 2017, doctors told Tess in order to live her best life, she was going to have to change her diet drastically. Low Carb… Low Sugar. Tipping the scales at 267 pounds… Tess knew it was time to make the commitment to DO and BE better.

Over the past two years, Tess has lost a total of 54 pounds and counting! She loves where she is in her journey and knows that she will always need to push forward and evolve. Now she helps clients improve their lifestyles and healthy through personal training, group fitness classes, and healthy meal prep.

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Stacy BozarthSpeaker, Coach & Trainer                  Talk: Female Friendships 

Stacy helps others tune into their heart of helpfulness, a commitment to excellence, an awareness of the need for connection over interaction, and a strong desire to influence the cultures within relationship strengthening communities and beyond in positive and loving ways. 
“In my heart of hearts, I have always wanted the best for people I meet and know. I literally see pure potential in others. I know that although I often don’t recognize it in myself (it’s sort of how I was made!), I am called to join forces with women to better our lives, the lives of our loved ones, and help others experience the full beauty of this dance we call life!”
For the last 20+ years, she has helped women be their best physical, mental, spiritual and emotional selves through Jazzercise. She has taught at national conventions, spoken to large groups of instructors at regional meetings, and trained new instructors across the country while also teaching local classes many times per week.



Amy UrbachSpeaker, Coach, Advocate                    Talk: Blended Families

The 41-year-old mother of two children (Stephanie, 20 and Shawn, 16) and stepmother to three children (Cameron, 13; Sierra, 9 and Brianna, 7), 
her passion began and blossomed in 2006. 
While everyone has a different story, Amy began to realize the issues and challenges blended families face and the need for basic tools and resources.
Amy Urbach dedicated herself to connecting blended families with the resources to help them succeed.
Amy founded Blended & Bonded in 2011 after recognizing a need by the growing number of blended families for information to make blended family life easier.
Amy is passionate about helping other blended families grow, connect and bond.
Amy grew up on a farm, slopped hogs, gathered eggs and worked a garden bigger than her yard. Amy stated, “I am insanely passionate about supporting and helping blended families. I’ve had a stepmom since my parents divorced when I was five. I am a stepmom and my own kids have a stepmom.”

Toma Clarke Haines, Chief Executive Diva of The Antiques Diva & Co. European Tours 

Talk: D.R.E.A.M. Mindset 

An American who has lived abroad since 2000, it has been said that Clark Haines is conquering countries faster than Napoleon.
Working with a team of locally-based agents, The Antiques Diva & Co has become Europe’s largest antiques touring company, offering customized antiques buying tours on 3 continents and in 16 countries in Europe, Asia and America to both tourists (mere shopping mortals) and the trade (antique dealers and interior designers).
Her favorite part of her job is stocking client’s stores across the pond and creating new trends in home fashion.
When this style-maker is not on a buying tour Clark Haines is also a freelance travel and design writer, an international public speaker, an interior decorator and social media guru. 
She is a champagne connoisseur, a vintage Chanel addict and her hobbies include driving fast cars and gourmet cooking.
Traveling extensively for work, she divides her time between her 2 homes in Venice, Italy and Berlin, Germany, as well as traveling in each of her company’s tour countries.
Her greatest challenge in life is remembering when she wakes up each morning whether to greet the day with a BuongiornoBonjourGuten Tag or simply Good Day!

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Erika Lucas, Co-Founder StitchCrew, Investor, Board Director, TEDx Speaker, Podcast Host, Latina, Mom

Talk: Launching Your Next Big Idea

Erika is the Co-Founder of StitchCrew, a firm focused on growing the innovation economy in the middle of the country by democratizing access and connecting traditionally overlooked entrepreneurs with capital, resources and social networks.

As part of her efforts, she runs an accelerator program backed by the Oklahoma City Thunder and Google. Born and raised in Mexico, she started her career facilitating the establishment and successful operation of several international companies in Mexico. 

Prior to launching StitchCrew, she was Vice President of a Private Equity Firm with investments in the U.S. and Europe. As part of the leadership team, she worked closely with the firm’s partners to evaluate new investment opportunities and managed the integration of new acquisitions into the firm’s operating business model. 

Erika currently serves as Board Director of Arvest Bank, the Oklahoma Policy Institute, the Oklahoma City County Health Department, and the Potts Family Foundation.


Erika Lucas Ted Talk: America’s Trillion Dollar Blindspot 




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